A.S. Face 0506: Jean Mace

Hi everybody my name is Jean Mace and I’am 48 years old I was born with Hip Dysplasia which wasn’t diagnosed until I was 23 years old we knew something was wrong because as a child if I walked to far stood up too long I would faint and have blackouts . My mum took me to many doctors and hospital when I was 2 she said there’s something  wrong as I didn’t learn to walk until I was two and a half and couldn’t stand for long cried with pain  .Allstorts of test brain scans where done I was put on medication my mum never gave in she knew something wasn’t right but I was born in 1964 in UK and doctors where gods what they said is law and you never questioned them .I grew up went to work in a in a shoe factory which I loved I became the youngest union representative at the age of 21years old .My health was still not good still fainting and falling my hands would cease up . At the age of 23 had to go to hospital as my hips where really bad I had to have a Periacetabular Osteotomy which wasn’t that successful. At the age of 25  I had to give up work the pain was just too much .I went back to the hospital had another MRI Scan and found my back was really bad I had Degenrative Disc Disease and Prolapse Discs as well as my problems with my Hip Dislocation .We where told I would be in a wheelchair before I reached 30.I was put on crutches and pain medication sent to physiotherapy again but soon had to stop as hips would just keep coming out and would spend most of the time having them put back .So spent the last 20 odd years on crutches and in a wheelchair when things got really bad after being told there was nothing that could be done. My mum was told she had IBS when I was 30 and she had pains in the neck and lower back but she fell down some stone stairs in her 20s so no one thought  anything of it two years later mum was diagnosed with Terminal Colon Cancer. Within three months  we had lost her to the cancer it had spread to her spine that was the first time we heard the word Ankylosing Spondylitis and fusing but with everything else it just got forgot about cancer and making my mums last weeks the best we could that was the only thing that matter that was 15 years ago.Last year my hips came out 4 times in one week so Gp said that it was time to go back to specialist  . My dad took me while the specialist was going though my medical records reading them out loud and he said of course you know you have Ankylosing Spondylitis we just looked at each other and said no thats what my mum had but no one had told me thats what I had as well of IBS and my spine problems and pelvis and hips .So now getting up to date just be in hospital to have polyps and swellings biopsy on bought back memories of my mum and younger sister she as just been given 5 years alclear but pleased to say mine was only Adenomatous Polyps and Pre-Malignat which where succesfully removed and they are going to keep a eye on me.Another MRI Scan done fusing in lower back, pelvis and partial fusing of neck prolapsed disc in spine. Saw the specialist wednesday and he wants me to have reconstrutive opertation of the neck C7 C6 C5 Partial fused and  Prolapsed Discs in nearly all the other discs in the neck he said if only I had been diagnosed earlier I wouldn’t be in such a state .So now trying to find out what this means and what I can expect the recovery will be before saying yes to the operation .

The one good thing thats as come out of all this is the amazing people I have meet and the compassion I have seen and felt that you have all shown for each other and me and for that I will always be grateful to my A.S Family

THANK YOU : ) xXx

England United Kingdom


14 Responses to “A.S. Face 0506: Jean Mace”

  1. Uh, are you guys like British or something? (just kidding!) Your dad is very proud of you isn’t he Jean. You dear, are my hero. I can’t quite put my fingers on the right words yet, or the phraseology, or get my head wrapped around the right sentence that would describe the triumph of the human will that you AS’ers display. I can see it, with my eyes every day here,….and you have that glow about you Jean…thanks buddy.

    • Thank you Derek but I’am no hero just a ordinary woman with A.S .I’am a believer in that s**t happens but its how you deal with it .I’am lucky to have a loving family and friend sto stand beside me and to give me strength and now with a add bonus of my new A.S family.

      • No Jean, you’re still my hero. It’s your “attitude”, and that same attitude that’s displayed by all the veteran AS’ers, that needs to be bottled and given to the new AS’ers. And FACE’s is the well where they can come and drink of your attitude.

  2. Hi Jean, like most of as you’ve had a rough time but have still come out the other side smiling, keep strong Jean and remember your friends will always be there for you.
    Regards

    Father Mick Face 11

    • Father Mick I’ve read so many amazing stories of over coming many adversities and with amazing strength .With friends like you that make me smile and give me strength on low dark days .Your humor is like the a tonic so thank you my friend xXx : )

  3. Hi Jean, I’m so happy you are here with us.

  4. Greetings from face 231 !! I like face 506, you have true grit and the fighting spirit. After so many tragedies you have come through to fight on, dont let the bitch win Jean!!

    • Thank you Jane. I think my mum passed down to me her fighting spirit she was one hell of a lady. If I fight half as well as she did I’ll soon be kicking A.S in the butt for a change lol xXx ; )

  5. Welcome to our growing group, Jean! Thanks for sharing your story! Stephania #445

    • Thank you Stephania I’am honoured to have my story shared with those who have so many amazing stories each one showing amazing bravery and fortitude xXx : )

  6. Dear Jean,
    Thank you so much for sharing your story with us.
    Sincerely Cookie

    • Thank you Cookie you are a true inspiration your so caring and loving even though your pain always thinking of others and how you can help them .When I first got diagnosed everything looked so dark and lonely but now I feel that I have a new family and thats my A.S Family god bless you you and others like you shown me theres a light at the end of the tunnel <3

      • Dear Jean,
        Thank you so much for your kind words, they mean the world to me. You do have a new family! There is a Light, it’s the compassion we all have for each other!
        Sincerely Cookie

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